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When did you realize you were really in labor?
When I lost my mucus plug or had a bloody show. Contractions weren't painful yet, just starting to make me tired, and I'd only been in labor about two hours. I was a week early, and until that point, I was convinced I was just having bad Braxton Hicks.
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What was the most challenging thing about going natural?
The nurse. I had to argue (during transition, no less) about not needing an IV, as I had been drinking water the whole labor, and not needing pitocin, as I was in transition. Everything else came naturally (pardon the pun).
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What was the most helpful thing you did to prepare for childbirth?
Squats and perineal massage. I still wound up with a minor tear, buy no stitches, and no ring of fire.
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What surprised you about your birth?
How comfortable hands and knees was. I had prepared to squat or semi squat, thinking that I wouldn't want to be on all fours during labor, but that wound up being the easiest position for me.
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My husband was on board with my declining nearly everything, even the IV. Find someone who will be that supportive for you, whether it be your partner, a doula, your mother, sister, or a friend.
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What pain relief strategies worked best?
Counter pressure. My husband pushed on my lower back during contractions.
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What position did you end up delivering in?
Hands and knees.
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How did it feel to hold your baby for the first time?
So wonderful, and primal. She was MINE. My husband joked that he thought I wouldn't give her up to be weighed.
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What advice can you give to other mamas who want to go natural?
1. Research. Learn everything you can, even about scenarios that you don't want to happen, so that you have an understanding of what nurses/doctors/midwives are saying if they are telling you about a recommended intervention.
2. Have a support person. My husband was on board with my declining nearly everything, even the IV. Find someone who will be that supportive for you, whether it be your partner, a doula, your mother, sister, or a friend.